tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6363940276345303975.post2540995058652414649..comments2023-05-15T08:35:49.316-04:00Comments on Lost with Infertility in a Fertile World: SO FRUSTRATED!!!happymomof4http://www.blogger.com/profile/13774686365582800301noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6363940276345303975.post-31468705684928873952011-01-04T23:54:24.122-05:002011-01-04T23:54:24.122-05:00I am sooo sorry you have to deal with that! In la...I am sooo sorry you have to deal with that! In laws are so hard and worse when they are polar opposite of your own parents! Ugh, I could say so much more, but it wouldn't be nice, just know I'm as disgusted as you are!Denihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16241957159520703116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6363940276345303975.post-25652508753645648422011-01-04T19:18:14.889-05:002011-01-04T19:18:14.889-05:00Wow!! How inappropriate of your in-laws. In all ho...Wow!! How inappropriate of your in-laws. In all honestly, If it were me, I'd sit down with them myself and tell them how much they're hurting me and the kids. They might not think that their words are harmful, but there's no room for favoratism or racism in a family. I know that's harsh, but in a way, they are being racist. I'm so sorry they can't accept your children for the gems that they are!!!Jannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09577220349572204264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6363940276345303975.post-66386193933288290642010-12-31T15:56:18.201-05:002010-12-31T15:56:18.201-05:00Wow. That sounds really hard to deal with. I am so...Wow. That sounds really hard to deal with. I am sorry. Hopefully they are the only people in your family that act that way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6363940276345303975.post-6446025609749386612010-12-31T11:25:22.925-05:002010-12-31T11:25:22.925-05:00THANK YOU ALL for all your support!!! I am trying ...THANK YOU ALL for all your support!!! I am trying to ignore the comments that are said as long as they are not in ear shot of my kids that is where I draw the line and can no longer bite my tongue; or that are said directly to me. The hard part is, is that hubby in a way condon's their behavior saying he see's where they are coming from saying it is because they are old school. HELLO my parents are not that much younger than his and don't act that way. That is just an excuse for their behavior to continue. I guess I need to be thankful that we only see them about once a month.happymomof4https://www.blogger.com/profile/13774686365582800301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6363940276345303975.post-18728368758077065012010-12-30T20:05:53.012-05:002010-12-30T20:05:53.012-05:00Omg that is so f-ing ridiculous. Unfortunately I&...Omg that is so f-ing ridiculous. Unfortunately I'd be afraid my parents would be like that. My mom is very prejudice. Praying for a healthy baby no matter what.MelissaP05https://www.blogger.com/profile/06581415340250726038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6363940276345303975.post-21351762119672622612010-12-30T17:41:35.955-05:002010-12-30T17:41:35.955-05:00Wow, that would be so hard to handle! My husband a...Wow, that would be so hard to handle! My husband and I have also had to talk about the racial thing because we both have family members who would have a hard time accepting a "non-white" baby. How frustrating that they can't come to terms with them being their family and loving them like your "own" child. Sorry you have to deal with this. I guess all you can really do is to pray that they would have a change of heart.Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10826913919163707391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6363940276345303975.post-2809782220467730062010-12-30T17:38:07.927-05:002010-12-30T17:38:07.927-05:00WOW! I don't know what to say!! I am just shoc...WOW! I don't know what to say!! I am just shocked at their behavior and attitude. Praying for you and your family as you deal with your inlaws.Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16346777903276344723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6363940276345303975.post-17705912994063493712010-12-30T17:36:29.241-05:002010-12-30T17:36:29.241-05:00That is so awful. I know your in-law's comment...That is so awful. I know your in-law's comments and attitude are most hurtful! I"m so sorry that you are having to deal with this racial prejudice. :(Aaron and Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10331025232659525614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6363940276345303975.post-3150245426210096252010-12-30T17:15:19.815-05:002010-12-30T17:15:19.815-05:00wowza. i'm sorry for all of that. i don'...wowza. i'm sorry for all of that. i don't have any good advice to say, except to relay what i've heard dr. laura say in situations like this (warning -- i do not always agree with things dr. laura says -- but sometimes i do). At some point, you need to make a decision who is more important -- the well-being of your children (because they will pick up on this negativity, if they haven't already), or your in-laws. The obvious choice is your kids and if your in-laws are a negative influence on them, then it is time to have a serious come to Jesus talk with them, and if they do not change their ways, start distancing.Britneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13056588171258820034noreply@blogger.com